It’s ok not to ride
Did you know it's ok not to ride?
So many people are shamed into giving up their horses because they're not "using" them to their full "potential". People are convinced to euthanize their horse because "they'll never be able to ride again", even if they could live a full, happy life. People are encouraged to pass on their horses when they outgrow their horse's athletic ability. But why? Who said a horse's value is limited only by their ability to carry a human around?
Things your horse needs for a good quality of life: Friends (horse and/or human), Freedom (to behave like a horse), Forage (to eat like a horse), Fun (enrichment), saFety (a clean, safe environment), and comFort (ability to avoid harsh elements or stressful life events).
Things they don't need: Riding, competing, traveling, changing homes frequently, living in confinement or isolation (so they don't get hurt being a horse). There's nothing wrong with riding with your friend, no one is telling you not to ride, but riding has no effect your horse's happiness and quality of life. Your horse doesn't care if he wins shows, so long as he's spending time with someone he loves. He doesn't care where the trail leads so long as it brings him home in the end.
Did you know there are millions of other things you can do with your horse if you or they can't ride?
Equine agility is an absolute blast, the kids love it, horses love it, done at liberty and with positive reinforcement everyone has fun! This can work to help build your horse's physical wellbeing with exercise as well as their coordination and proprioception as they learn to negotiate new obstacles. This can also entertain their brain and teach them about a wild variety of new things they may encounter. Keeping life active and fun!
Enrichment, even if you can't participate much with your horse you can offer your horse a wide variety of enriching toys. Puzzle feeders, treat balls, new stuffed animals, mirrors, new scents (essential oils), giant stuffed animals, sprinklers, misters, introducing them to new animals of all species. These are all fun ways to keep your horse active and mentally engaged even when your time and ability to participate is limited.
Going for walks together, pack a lunch and take your friend for a lovely walk with you!
Teach them tricks, with positive reinforcement we can teach our horses to do literally anything. So why get stuck on riding? You can teach your horse to dance a routine with you. Your horse can become an artist and express themself through painting! Put on your favorite dress or fantasy outfit and take beautiful photos, or play dress up with your horses! Did you know your horse can learn vocabulary? Teach your horse to identify all their brushes or other toys in their environment. Or teach your horse to talk back with cue cards, so your horse can cue you for belly rubs or playtime!
Riding is fun, but there is so much more to life and horses than just sitting on their back. If you or your horse can't ride, don't let that stop you from sharing an amazing bond! Don't give up on your beautiful relationship with someone you love There is so much more to love than riding.